No, no not me in jail and no Rehab for me. 

Sorry it has been a while since I have posted.  I have been busy helping a close friend out.  We tried to help someone who frankly could not help themselves.  We let him live in our home for a “few days” which turned into several months.  He began drinking heavily and then drunk dialing his ex.  Not a good idea since there was a no contact order against him.

He is a nice person deep down, but just can’t get over his ex.  They broke up a year ago.  Time to move on!  We thought we could save his life and help him out.  Doing a good deed to help someone in need you know? 

He got arrested for violating the injunction when drunk dialing. And guess where the police came?  To our house.  They pounded on the door and did not identify themselves, we thought it was a home invasion, so we were “locked and loaded”.  I caught a glimpse of a police uniform through a bathroom window.  Stupid not to identify themselves!  Our friend called his lawyer and he advised us not to answer the door, because he needed to turn himself in, not get arrested.  LOVELY!  They pounded on our door for 45 minutes, the dogs went nuts! No good dead goes unpunished.

So he turned himself in and went to jail.  His lawyer had worked a deal out where he would sit in jail for the weekend then on Monday all charges would be dropped.  He did not know about this deal.  Interesting…Please understand I have never dealt with arrests or jail with any one.  All new to us.

So Monday comes, he gets out of jail, we pick him up and go eat pizza.  Our friend said he would never go back to jail, ever!  That is good news to us too.  We had told him that he needed to stay somewhere else as my brother in law was coming in that night.

He came with us to the house and worked for a couple hours and drank wine.  Well he drank a lot of wine.  That evening he talked to his ex and decided he should visit her (they have a kid together).  Well it gets much worse as the story goes.  Evidently he drank more and showed up, she did not answer the door and that really pissed him off.  In the driveway was a new German car, our “friend” decided to kick the doors in and then back his huge truck into the car pushing off the drive into the grass.  OH it gets better.  He drank more and decided to drive to the beach 50 miles away.  It really takes talent to get a DUI at 10AM!!!  What the FUCK! 

So lets review.  Jail for the weekend, all charges dropped then 12 hours later you have 3–4 charges in one county and a few more hours later 3 charges in another county.  How the hell does anyone do that?  Free man, then a wanted man in the same day???  This can’t happen can it?

So they put him in jail, no bail, then after 40 days allowed him to go to alcohol rehab, live in.  After that he goes back to court for ramming another car, leaving the scene etc, etc.  4 charges.  May have a lot of jail time there.  Oh yea, he still has the DUI which they have reduced to reckless driving (lucky!).  My hubby and I had power of attorney over his affairs and business.  Such a mess.  He did not want to pay day care so we resigned our rights as power of attorney.  No good deed goes unpunished.

Now you know where I have been over the last few months.  Was it worth it?  HELL NO! Would I do it again HELL NO!  Did we save his life? Maybe.  Trying help a friend was pure hell for us. We even have arguments about it, and we never argue. The stress mentally and financially will never be understood.  Remember “A friend in need, is NO friend indeed” (my interpretation) It is true, NO GOOD DEED GOES UNPUNISHED!

Now back to sexy porn!

Luv,
Summer